Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Mortgage Payoff Tracker: DIY Roof


Time for a Mortgage Payoff Update!

In May we sent in our first mortgage payment. We were able to bump that payment up to $4,225.30 due to some unexpected Blessing Money that month. (Yes, all of our income is "blessing money," that's just how we refer to the extra, unexpected cash that shows up). Some of it came from the washer and dryer money the seller gave us at closing. $1000 of it came from our rental deposit that we received that month. Some of it was money we’d saved by bargaining for a used lawn mower off of Craigslist. And $500 of it came out of nowhere when the State of Wisconsin randomly decided to give everyone a $100 tax rebate PER CHILD! Sometimes life is random and you get to reap the blessings. That first payment shortened our mortgage by 21 months and saved us $10,109.36 in interest!
In June we didn’t have any unexpected money to add to the loan. We wrote our second principle check for $1358.07 – our usual payment of $649.36 plus the $708.71 we’ve budgeted to pay toward the house every month (a somewhat random number we came up with and forced our budget to accept, ha). This second payment reduced our interest by $1,866.83 and shortened our loan by 4 months. Yay!
This month will be the first check to go in as a minimum payment. We decided to use the extra money we would normally put toward the loan to enjoy a three day getaway to celebrate our 7th anniversary instead. It was WELL worth it! This was our first time to go anywhere overnight without any of the children (except for the wee one we’re expecting in February!), and really our first time to do much of anything to celebrate our anniversary. 
My mom and sister came up to watch the Five Little Monkeys, and they all did great! Joshua and I stayed at a Bed and Breakfast, went kayaking, enjoyed a little hiking, ate great food, listened to the orchestra in the park, and tried our hand at painting for the first time. We went to one of those “paint your own canvas” places where you try to copy what a real artist has painted, with a tiny bit of instruction from the staff. We did a canvas of the Stillwater Bridge together. It was hilarious, as neither of us has ever painted before, and we were both trying to tell the other how it’s done. The end result won’t make is famous, but it is a fun memento of an awesome trip! We’re going to have to make child-free vacations more of a habit, now that I know my babies can survive without me for a few days ;) 

While we don’t have any extra money going toward the loan this month, we do have a “Buy Smart” win to report. Early mortgage payoff doesn’t always mean paying extra on the loan. Sometimes it just means staying out of other debt so that you’re free to pay on the loan with any Blessing Money you have in the future.
We knew when we bought the house that it needed a new roof. We decided we wanted metal roofing because, while it costs about twice the price of shingles, it can last up to three times as long. Since we plan on being here a long time, we decided it was worth the extra money to (hopefully) not have to replace our roof again for at least 30 years.
We got two estimates on the roof in May. Both came out to roughly $10,500 for a new metal roof over a single layer of existing shingles. Ouch! It so happened that Joshua’s parents were visiting at the time. Joshua’s dad can do pretty well any project he sets out to accomplish, so when he suggested that he could get us started doing the roof ourselves for half the price, we took him up on the offer. Our roof is very basic, with only one gable. It doesn’t have a very steep grade, and didn’t need the shingles removed before installing the metal, so we were fairly confident in their ability to get the job done. As long as David could get Joshua passed the gable before he had to head home, Joshua could figure out how to finish the rest.

Odds seemed stacked against them (lots of rain, errors in orders, and an unexpected hospital stay delayed things considerably), but with lots of help from several friends they got ALMOST to the point they wanted to be at before David left. Thankfully, Joshua has inherited quite a bit of his dad’s “can do anything” spirit, and he’s been able to figure things out as he goes along. It’s not quite finished, but one more full day of work should have it completed. And don’t you love that shiny blue?!
A huge thank-you to David and the many dear friends who have loaned us tools, advice, and free labor. We definitely could not have done this without you! It’s been a great learning experience and, all in all, has gone pretty smoothly. I even got up there a couple times and did some work (I slowed the process more than helped but hey, it was fun). And only one person has fallen off the roof so far. Turns out you really shouldn't work on top of a metal roof in the rain.... Go figure... (Don’t worry, David is just a little sore. Still wish I’d gotten his impressive landing on video ;)).

Estimate for a new metal roof: $10,476
Total cost of our DIY metal roof: $4,817 (this included the cost of several basic tools like a
second drill and a ladder)


Total savings: $5,659
Paying the difference into the loan wasn’t possible this time, but we sure are thankful for the savings!


Payment Summary:

First Principle Payment: $4,225.30
Interest Saved: $10,109.36
Loan Shortened By: 21 Months!


Second Principle Payment: $1358.07
Interest Saved: $1866.83
Loan Shortened By: 4 Months


Third Principle Payment: $649.36
Interest Saved: $0
Loan Shortened By: 0 Months

Wednesday, July 25, 2018

Happily Ever After: The Never Ending Story


It's been quite some time since I posted in this series, but I received a story this week that had me in tears and I requested permission to share it with you today. 

It is possible for a man to quit pornography and never once return. Unfortunately, that is more the exception than the rule. So what happens when your husband continues to give into temptation, year after year after year? What do you do when he repeatedly breaks your heart? Is there a point when you finally just give up on your marriage?

This is Michelle's story (very slightly edited for clarity). I hope it gives you the courage to hold onto your marriage, no matter what.